When the word of God said in Hebrews 13:4 that marriage is honourable with the bed undefiled, it was not a statement, rather it was a command. Sex is only for the married, there is no justification for it outside marriage. But so that you will know what really happens during fornication and adultery this message is very necessary. May be when people know what actually takes place when they disobey God they may have a rethink.
Man is made up of the spirit, the soul and the body. The body is the physical you, your spirit is the real you, while the soul is made up of your mind, emotion and will. And sex is the only thing you do with your spirit, soul and body at the same time. So God designed sex only for marriage because the man and his wife are one. Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5, Mark 10:7. He didn't say the man and His girlfriend or fiancée, marriage makes two people one and sex unites their spirit, soul and body together. So you can see how dangerous it is to be having sex with someone you have not yet married, or sleeping with different people.
Pre-marital sex does not just kill love, it reduces your soul, your mind and mental faculty diminishes, your emotion becomes unstable and then your will is weak. When a man marries a woman, sex makes them better, their capacity is increased. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12. If fornicating with a person reduces your soul, now imagine what happens when a person begins to sleep around. It is not fun; it is the manipulation of the devil to destroy your soul. Samson could not reason well as he continued in adultery with Delilah.
A part of your soul goes with the person you sleep with, no wonder when there is a break-up of that relationship you may still keep seeing that fellow in dreams, unless you take that part of you in that person through sincere prayers and repentance you may not really reach the maximum of your destiny. This is why even after marriage most people still find them selves lusting after their EX. Sex is not just a commitment it is a spiritual transaction. No wonder it is advisable to flee fornication and lusts.
Destinies are being reduced through the instrumentality of fornication and the devil is making a big gain out of this because people don't know that when you have sex with a person other than your wife you have just enslaved your destiny, that person have taken a part of you and you have taken a part of that person.
Even when you stop having sex and break-up you need to consciously retrieve that part that is in that person. Proverbs 11:9 says through knowledge shall the just be delivered. It's time to stop the devil from controlling your mind. The truth you know and do something about can make you free. John 8:32.
The devil manipulates the minds of people just to make them feel they can't do without sex, he pollutes their minds with indecency, music and many more. So they eventually become sex slaves not being able to flee and say no, but it's time to arise. Right now if you are involved in pre-marital sex it's time to stop and take that part of you that you sold through fornication and God will restore you back in the name of Jesus. Joel 2:25, God can restore but that is not until you truly repent and pray with the understanding of what happens during fornication.
Furthermore, A man's sperm is not supposed to be spilled and wasted; it's a spiritual raw material for procreation invented by God. It is dangerous to waste it because God hates waste. Genesis 38:7-9.
If you don't deal with past sex experiences, your marriage may be affected unknowingly, because you cannot really commit your total self to your spouse and when there is a sex problem there will be a communication problem in marriage. Please pass this message to as many people as you can, you never can tell how many people's mindset is being changed for the better through the conviction of the Holy Spirit. God bless you.
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